REALLY NEED TO DO THIS IN A GROUP. The communal group
atmosphere of excitement somehow helps. A party.
can certainly confirm that I've had more success showing
other people how to do it in group situations than
so I think there's something to the idea that the group
helps somehow. Maybe it's also because some people
are naturally so much better at it, and once one person
it in a group and everyone witnesses it, it's pretty
hard to stay sceptical. You KNOW it works - you just
have to try to make it work yourself.
I think that the group situation (especially with kids
around) help with the "distraction" required
to make the cutlery bend.
everyone has arrived, had a drink & food or whatever
and settled down, you can begin. Put all of the cutlery
in the middle and get everyone to choose a piece that
feels good when they pick it up. Everyone sits in a circle
with their cutlery, and then the lights are dimmed and
any music is turned off.